asking a guy out/no confidence
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asking a guy out/no confidence
| Sat, 01-13-2007 - 11:07pm |
Hi everyone,
just to give you a little background: im 23 and ive never had a boyfriend. ive always been super shy and always found it hard to talk to guys, especially ones that i liked. im the type that has crushes, but never does anything about it. nearly all my friends are married/engaged/are in serious relationships, and even though im only 23 im starting to fear that im going to be a lonely old cat lady.
there is this guy that goes to the same gym as me that im interested in, although weve never talked or anything. i dont even know where to start getting to know him. i would love to just ask him out, but i dont think ill ever have the nerve. anyone have any tips to get him to notice me or any confidence booster tips???

Just a simple smile can sometimes do the trick. Is there anyway you could pretend not to know how to use one of the machines in the gym when he just happens to be in your general vicinity? Which equipment does he work out on? You could ask him if he knows how many reps you are supposed to do on such and such. If you see him chatting it up with someone you know, you could always go out on a limb and ask the person to introduce the two of you. Ahhh, this is a little on the corny side, but you could pretend to have seen him somewhere before, just to get a conversation initiated.
I hope this helps! Good luck!
"If you see him chatting it up with someone you know, you could always go out on a limb and ask the person to introduce the two of you. "
That can work!