Asking men out, do you do it?
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Asking men out, do you do it?
| Wed, 05-07-2008 - 12:43pm |
Having posted a link to that article from Single Edition the other day, something that made me pause, that it included, was a comment from a man in it, wherein he states "our dream as men is for a woman to ask us out, I dream of that time..."

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I also am one of those women who has taken the bull by the horns, so to speak, and been the one who has done the asking. And it never works. Ever. And I
I used to, but my experiences confirmed for me that if a guy is really interested, you won't have to ask him out because he'll already have asked YOU out.
Now, I prefer for the man to do the asking. I believe that a man who is truly interested in me will eventually ask me out. If he's interested and never asks me out, then he's likely too shy for me anyway or has other commitments/distractions that prevent him from asking. Not worth my time to try and chase him.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
I think that anytime a guy says he "dreams" of a woman asking him out, it has nothing to do with wanting a relationship and everything to do with his ego.
I agree.
and more, I agree with what he says that men, if they are really interested, they will find a way to get up the courage to ask a woman out.
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Maybe, then again maybe he was told you are seeing someone and respects that. Maybe he works with you and is afraid of harassment issues at work. Maybe he works across the street and you just see him and he hasn't seen YOU yet. (-; Maybe he told a friend he was going to ask and he was told you only date rich body builders! ((-: Maybe . .. . .
I think this is over thought. I get turned down at least as much as I get positive responses. I am single, so clearly the "works out" part could use some refinement. LoL I don't think it has a thing in the world to do with talking the bulls by the horn, I think putting 100% of it on the man is just a way to escape responsibility and risk.
If you like a guy, why not flirt a little, ask him to share a lunch or coffee, take a risk. Do so with a level head and
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