Is asking a women what she likes sexu...

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Is asking a women what she likes sexu...
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Thu, 09-29-2005 - 8:46pm

Is asking a women what she likes sexually, i.e. how to touch her a turn off?



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Registered: 03-20-2003
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 11:11pm

Don't ask, just do and then be observant.

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Fri, 09-30-2005 - 9:52am

I like some verbal communication - especially if my partner and I are getting into unchartered territory.

Sometimes I like it as foreplay, too - if we are out for drinks or driving home, and he tells me what he wants to do to me, and asks if I'd like such and such. HOT!!!

Better not get any more in depth. I don't want to violate TOS. LOL


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Registered: 07-03-2005
Fri, 09-30-2005 - 11:17am
some women are too shy to say... "touch me here" "softer" "stop doing the jackrabbit" but others like to tell a guy what to do... I prefer to guide him... I think this is definitely a "every girl is different" situation. Ya gotta just figure it out as ya go... it's all part of the fun! LOL
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Fri, 09-30-2005 - 11:15pm

I think there's a big difference between a guy asking "Do you like abc" or telling me what he wants to do and saying "so, what do you want me to do?"

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Fri, 09-30-2005 - 11:17pm

Stop doing the jackrabbit...hehe... Is that something like the 500 mph tongue when a guy is kissing?


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Registered: 10-01-2005
Sat, 10-01-2005 - 8:54am
Without asking it takes much longer to figure out what a woman likes and doesn't like..but just like a woman can be shy to answer, a guy can be shy to ask..so my most natural mode of operation is to just wing it the first time and discuss it between the first and the 2nd time..going into extensive discussion on it during sex would be a turn off i guess..but that would be better than not asking at all and being convinced you're god's gift to women while she hates what you're doing ;)
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Sat, 10-01-2005 - 12:33pm

That's true.

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Registered: 08-05-2004
Sun, 10-02-2005 - 2:00pm

hmmm...I would assume that the 'jackrabbit' is the REALLY overly fast *ahem* thrusting action during sex. Have you seen the Sex and the City were Charlotte gets married to Harry? Carrie has a fling with the best man, and that's exactly what he does...just HILARIOUS! Unfortunately, it's actually happened to me :P

Alyssa

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Sun, 10-02-2005 - 5:01pm

That's what I meant...probably performed by those guys who think the fast flicking of the tongue is desirable in a kiss.