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Attraction?
| Mon, 06-26-2006 - 5:10am |
If I knew someone wasnt attracted to me physically I would not date them.
Does anyone else agree with me or am I just out of touch with everyone again?

I would not date anyone who was not attracted to my physically either. There has to be some type of physical connection/attraction in the beginning along with a mental connection. Otherwise, it is just a friendship.
What I don't get is when somebody thinks you are hot and have a great friendship, but still does not want to date you.
I think that finding someone attractive and being attracted to them are different things.
You dont suddenly stop fancying attractive people just because you are in a relationship. I adore my boyfriend and think he is gorgeous but I can still recognise a good looking man. And I know he still notices good looking women, its no way saying I would prefer to be with them.
You seem determined to always think the worst about yourself and other people. With that attitude, you will never change and be happy. You need to help yourself before you expect things to improve. If you keep thinking negatively about literally everything, you will stay miserable.