Back to the drawing board

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Registered: 11-23-2011
Back to the drawing board
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Tue, 01-03-2012 - 9:53am
Hi everyone and happy new year! Well, back to the dating pool for me. My second relationship of 2011 ended - my choice, but still a bummer. So here we go again. Last January, after the end of a 2 year relationship and I started dating again, I decided to accept that no one is perfect and to continue dating a guy even if I had slight reservations. However, all that seems to happen is that the small things that bothered me about him initially magnify into large things. At my age - mid-fifties, the choices are not that large, but try as I do, it seems hard to compromise. Next step for me is to go back on Mach.com and to try speed dating which I've never really done. BTW - for those who have done both paid and free dating sites have you seen any difference in the quality of communications? I feel that paid is better as there is an incentive for the guys not to be on the site forever, and so they are more likely to be actually looking for a relationship. But I'm not sure so would be interested in your thoughts.

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Wed, 01-04-2012 - 10:29pm

TWO KIDS UNDER AGE 10!!!! NEXT!

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 01-05-2012 - 8:20am

No;; He and I are not interested in each other.. I met him once on POF and we just say hi and talk once in awhile.. but the time I read his profile I was shocked at what he was looking for and his photos were of his house, boat, assets, etc.etc.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 01-05-2012 - 8:22am

No;; He and I are not interested in each other.. I met him once on POF

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Thu, 01-05-2012 - 11:15am

I had my income listed as "rather not say" and so did SO when I met him

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