Is this bad?

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Registered: 02-08-2007
Is this bad?
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Sun, 08-12-2007 - 9:48pm

A few months back I brought a friend to my buddy's party. She ended up drunkenly making out with a guy (we'll call him J) but they didn't exchange numbers. She contemplated adding J to her facebook to see if anything would happen but never did it. For the past 6 months or so she's been on and off with a guy that it probably can't work out with, due to circumstances I won't get into, so she's been pretty involved with that whole thing.

Now, a couple months back I ran into J at another party and he told me that the night he made out with my friend he had really been interested in me but I was caught up in something else that night so he didn't get the chance to do anything. Since then, J and I have hung out maybe 5-6 times. She doesn't mention him and I haven't told her we've been hanging out, the only thing she knows is that he invited me out with him a while back and she made a joke that he wants me. Is it wrong for me to be hanging out with him? I don't know what the protocol is for a guy a friend made out with while drunk.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sun, 08-12-2007 - 10:21pm

Did she want something with him beyond that night?