Bad Love Karma

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Bad Love Karma
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Sun, 12-04-2011 - 2:47pm

Okay Everyone;

I am now thinking that bad love karma is coming back to bite me in the butt... Over my many years I have done things I am not too proud of in the love arena..so is it coming back to haunt me now?

My HS crush is mad at me for some unknown reason. He wont talk to me and has defriended me on facebook.. I have no idea where to find him at this point..

The love of my life from thirty years ago will not speak to me at all. I have tried to talk to him on fb and send him a birthday message last August and nothing, zero, nada.. He

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sun, 12-04-2011 - 7:18pm

Free, when we're toodling around in the RV, we'll swap stories of how we got the bad love karma we've got - deal?

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 12-04-2011 - 7:33pm

You make me smile and I needed that. (thank you)

Oh; Yes.. we can exchange stories in the RV.. Maybe one day I will spill my guts here about it all. (lol)

Anyway; The HS Crush guy was talking to me on Friday night. He says his son wasnt going to be home Friday night. (hint

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sun, 12-04-2011 - 8:15pm

OK, girl, that's just MESSED UP and you know it.

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 12:18am

Nah, that's not

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 1:07pm
Did you two ever meet for lunch? If so, how did it go?

Based on what you've shared with us, I'd have to agree with True, it sounds kind of like a booty call. If he'd just wanted you to come and chilax, why oh why was he so very offended that he'd remove you as a FB friend? Makes no sense. It seems he may have thought he could get you into bed and that was his only motivation so, defriending you was not a big deal to him(ie he makes a habit of this sort of thing). Is that possible, or am I overreaching? Regardless, he sounds like a child. I'd be happy to be free of him.

If you're really concerned about your love karma, get out there and find a 30 something virgin and deflower him. Ha! Sorry, I watched the Virgin Diaries on TLC last night. I couldn't help myself!

http://tlc.discovery.com/videos/virgin-diaries-virgin-diaries-sneak-peek.html
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Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 2:16pm

ha ha ha

Let me try and clear up the story a bit . sorry if I didnt do this before..

No; we never met for lunch. We didnt get past the last fb conversation last Friday.. I woke up sat. and he was gone gone gone.

We had been talking on fb since last year when he was in Calif.. He drops out of sight for a bit. He returns to NY to sell a condo and then he gets back in touch with me and says he is in NY over the summer. I assumed over the summer since he was in NY we could get together. He never got back in touch with me so I dropped it. I really didnt care as I was having a great summer.

Fast forward to now he contacts me again and we were trying to set up the lunch and all and poof he is gone..

Okay.. I do get the bootie call but to be brutally honest when we were talking last year he said that he was having some man issues (if you know what I

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 2:18pm

ha ha ha

Let me try and clear up the story a bit . sorry if I didnt do this before..

No; we never met for lunch. We didnt get past the last fb conversation last Friday.. I woke up sat. and he was gone gone gone.I did tell him that we could meet for lunch and he seemed okay with it. but it was going to be during the week sometime.

We had been talking on fb since last year when he was in Calif.. He drops out of sight for a bit. He returns to NY to sell a condo and then he gets back in touch with me and says he is in NY over the summer. I assumed over the summer since he was in NY we could get together. He never got back in touch with me so I dropped it. I really didnt care as I was having a great summer.

Fast forward to now he contacts me again and we were trying to set up the lunch and all and poof he is gone..

Okay.. I do get the bootie call but to be brutally honest when we were talking last year he said that he was having some man issues (if you know what I

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 2:34pm
I dated a 21 yr old when I was 31... I, unknowingly, took his V card from him. We only dated for a few months. I felt so badly after the relationship ended, and he admitted it to me. Oh well...at least he got some experience! Anyway, there's no telling with this HS/FB guy. He'll probably friend you again at some point...be ready for it!
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Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 2:51pm

ha ha. seems we do have some dirty little secrets (lol)

Well? the 20 year old guy was not a virgin .. Well? I dont think so but who can remember that far back..

Anyway; yes.. my HS crush will most likely be back at some point..I guess he is just moody as heck .. I did send him an email and said. Gee Jay what happened .. ? Did I say something to get you upset. No response

I also asked his friend on fb about him? He said that is how J operates. Okay..

To be continued!!!

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 2:54pm

Don't you wonder, though, who in the HECK would WANT a virgin?

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