Being bad

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Being bad
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Sat, 11-12-2011 - 12:33pm

I've been called a good girl...goodie-two-shoes...all the names in the book when it comes to doing what's right.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: shywon
Sat, 11-12-2011 - 4:05pm

When my marriage ended in my mid-40s, I came to the realization that I cannot live my life under somebody else's standards, be it my parents or my friends or "society's."

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Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: shywon
Sat, 11-12-2011 - 4:23pm

I must confess that I have a bit of a wild streak in me and yes I have been bad and sometimes when an opportunity should arise I might be bad again.. (dont know)

I do know that I hold myself to higher standards these days because of my past but then there are those days where that wild streak might just come out and I turn bad again......

I to tend to push the envelope sometimes way more than is acceptable to society but hey I have no regrets..

One time I told my friend that I have done things that other people just dream about..

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Registered: 02-26-2011
In reply to: shywon
Sat, 11-12-2011 - 5:06pm

No such thing as a "Bad" girl unless you do something that actually intentionally causes harm to another person, e.g., the wife or the kids.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
In reply to: shywon
Sat, 11-12-2011 - 6:31pm
I don't think I've ever had what I'd call a wild streak, but I'm definitely stretching my boundaries a little. I think it's working in my favor because I had four different guys hitting on me last night. There were a couple more who would have if I'd given them the green light- they were dancing with us- but I already had my "friend" on the way so I didn't try. One guy was my guy friend's friend, another was married (I didn't go there, but if he were single I'd have been all over him a long time ago!) and one was my "friend". The last guy was practically chasing me out of the place telling me if I needed someone to come home with me he'd come! I told him I already had that taken care of, but he tried a couple more times. Like I'd really be up for that! Does that ever really work on women?

I kinda feel like flirting with so many guys- or even just talking to them- is bad. But maybe it's really not! I do know it's a lot of fun!
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Registered: 02-26-2011
In reply to: shywon
Sun, 11-13-2011 - 1:52am

Sometimes, quantity over quality (of males interested in you) is good for a woman's ego.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: shywon
Sun, 11-13-2011 - 10:27am

Flirting

dragowoman

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Registered: 02-08-2011
In reply to: shywon
Sun, 11-13-2011 - 10:55am

This sounds like normal fun and would only be "bad" for nuns. Hope it means you will have a lot more nights like this to enjoy.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
In reply to: shywon
Sun, 11-13-2011 - 11:35am

Well, I did leave out a few details! :smileywink:

Marina, attention from many men is definitely good for the ego.

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Registered: 02-26-2011
In reply to: shywon
Sun, 11-13-2011 - 12:53pm

Go, Shy, Go!

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Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: shywon
Sun, 11-13-2011 - 3:42pm

That is so true. When guys see you with other guys women become more attractive.

Anyway; Back in 2008 I was seeing this guy for a few weeks. Everywhere we went other guys would talk to me and want to start up conversations.. It was like what?? I couldnt get a date and now I am with one guy and other guys want to know me. (huh)

Oh; and there was a study done where if a woman has a wedding ring on she is more likely to get hit on than if she was single.

Go figure

Well; shy .. just have fun and flirt and be bad and be careful... stay safe....

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