being single 1 more year will kill me!
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| Sun, 01-06-2008 - 6:21am |
why one year? because i moved back to my hometown of 5,000 people to help my folks out until next december and now want to kill myself!!
all the men my age (25) here are either on drugs, have crazy gfs, have at least 1 illegitimate kid or are simply gross ie don't even shower! it is a logging community and it is crap.
its like moving from ny city to the place with one gas station you see in horror movies.
I AM NOT KIDDING!!!!
moving again is not an option - i am here because my folks own a business that is paying off my debt and enabling me to open my own business back in the city next year but being here is driving me crazy.
this town is so small, no one from here or even the next two towns are on dating sites - IVE LOOKED!! its like being at your high school reunion everyday. its disgusting.
join clubs? unless i am a hunter, that wont happen. my last bf was in 2005 and i have been single until sept 2007...then moved here in nov 2007!!! i had a bf for a mnth and a bit.
i dont NEED a bf but come on! knowing i ll be single for another year makes me want to puke. i really just need to vent but it makes me wanna cry daily.

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If boredom is your real issue, then a man isn't going to fix that.
Boredom comes from within. A man may be an external distraction, but he's not going to solve the issue.
When my son used to say "I'm bored" I always told him "what a gift". It meant he had the time and energy to explore all manner of things.
When my students tell me they're bored, I assume things are hard enough and give them something harder.
i see where you guys are coming from and im not looking for a man to FIX anything - ive never needed a man to do anything, but you cant understand unless you ve lived here. i just went to the grocery store and the cashier was talking to her friend, who was hovering over her (and doesnt even work there!) about how her sister tried to push her down the stairs cos she owes her 400$. THIS is the quality of life in this town. you cant escape it.
once again, i have two businesses and a fulltime job - i dont need a new hobby. my "boredom" refers to my dating life and no one who hasnt been in this situation can understand that
I think I understand how you feel.
I have tons of hobbies and interests but nothing will take away the fact I don't have an intimate relationship.
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