Being single and sex

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Registered: 02-09-2006
Being single and sex
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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 3:26am

So my question is to my fellow single gals is:


Do you have sex?


I really want to start

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 7:47am

I haven't had sex in almost a year.

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Registered: 11-21-2005
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 8:12am
I've had a couple of opportunities but I did not give in.
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Registered: 12-27-2004
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 8:15am
Ditto.
I'm not one for one night stands. Only because I'm too afraid of diseases and that movie, "Looking for Mr. Goodbar" freaked me out. LOL.
Not only that, but when I have sex, I like the feel of that comfort level you have with your boyfriend. Having sex with a total stranger, someone I just met off the street or something is just plain ol' nasty, to me.
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Registered: 01-18-2006
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 11:47am

shywon said, "I haven't had sex in almost a year. Trust me, if I could find someone that I liked to date, I don't think it'd be long before that dry spell was ended. It's like riding a bike."

It may be like riding a bike for you, but most of us guys don't come equipped with handlebars or pedals. However, wearing a helmet might be a good idea. ;)

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Registered: 05-19-2003
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 12:48pm

Yes, I have had sex. I have a friend with benefit and though it has definitely beenfun at times, I can't recommend it to anyone that can't have sex without getting emotionally involved. And the only reason why I got into this is because we started off dating, had sex, then realized we weren't right for each other. Months later, we ran into each other at a party and realized though we were very different, there was a strong sexual attraction and decided to keep that option open.

I'm currently trying to meet other guys so this won't be my only option in the future and to break away a little. It's been 3 weeks.

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 3:54pm

Oh, it's been awhile and definitely getting to me. But, I'm with some of the other posters - just can't do the casual thing.

So, I'll wait til a real relationship comes along. Let's hope that's sooner than later, or my chocolate bill is going to become outrageous.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 6:39pm

Oh, I'm sure I could find something to hang on to, and who needs pedals when you have buttons to push!


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Registered: 01-18-2006
Wed, 04-05-2006 - 1:16pm

shywon said, "Oh, I'm sure I could find something to hang on to, and who needs pedals when you have buttons to push!"

It must have been a long time since you were with a man. First, you were confusing us with bicycles having handlebars and pedals, now you sem to think we have buttons. Maybe that is a newer model than me; the last time I checked I had no buttons. Oh, and for future reference, I have no switches, bells, whistles, display screens, or steering wheels. However, my ears can be used as handles in the case of emergencies. ;)

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Registered: 11-21-2005
Wed, 04-05-2006 - 3:37pm
Oh, jeez!!!
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Wed, 04-05-2006 - 11:03pm

Oh. My. Gosh.


I assure you, you have buttons.

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