believe her or not?

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Registered: 03-17-2004
believe her or not?
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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 12:16pm
Hi, at work last weekend i met a new girl. She seemed really sweet, we got along very well. Well, she told me she worked with my ex in his department. She then proceeded to tell me all this stuff that he said about me,not much of it being positive, and, that he was flirting with her. The whole time she was telling me this, she was laughing like it was some hilarious thing, while i wanted to smack her! She now is bragging about it to everyone. Also, right after she told me this, she ended with "don't tell him i told you". Ok, if he really did say that, why would he care if i said that she told me? She acts like its this big joke...like its soo funny. This really aggravates me, all the while acting like my best friend. She supposedly has a bf, but, her description of their relationship is shady. She basically said "well, he never actually said we're dating, i just assumed." This whole thing just sounds odd, if she really wanted to be my friend, she wouldn't do this, let along brag about it to everyone. My ex is gonna find out anyway, regardless of whether i tell him she told me or not, since she's blabbing it to everyone. So, should i believe her or not?
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Registered: 06-19-2006
Wed, 09-27-2006 - 12:34pm

I would be very hesitant to believer her.

If you really don't care whether he knows she told you, is it possible to email both of them at the same time to see who caves and tells the truth.

But if he is your ex, is it really worth it??

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Wed, 09-27-2006 - 10:12pm

When someone tells me something ridiculous like that, I always question their motivation.