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Best places to meet guys?
| Mon, 11-06-2006 - 4:15pm |
These days it can seem hard to meet a great guy.
| Mon, 11-06-2006 - 4:15pm |
These days it can seem hard to meet a great guy.
There are no places to meet guys.
I've tried the Home Depot trick, and it works until his wife comes around the corner with a cart full of supplies for their kitchen remodel and their four children.
I think the single men are home playing video games or hiding under rocks somewhere. Unfortunately, it's the rock dwellers who occasionally show themselves and mess with our minds. ;)
AJ, enjoying life with C.
One other thing me and my friends did is have a "friend of a friend" party where we invited all of our single friends and had them bring someone of the opposite sex who is single and available. I met someone through one of those parties even though it didn't end up working out. I've met most of my boyfriends online though in the last few years.
Being a single guy I can say the only placed you are going to meet me is at the gym or work.
I highly doubt I will see you when I'm outdoors as those activities are mostly centered around male interests. There are women that show up sometimes but they are either long term girlfriends or spouses.
You most likely wouldn't catch me at the coffee house, hardware store, or supermarket because guys are solution oriented beings: if I'm getting coffee I'm in and then out, same with the supermarket or other store. I did a job, it's done..., now I can't see any reason to hang out any longer. I don't understand the whole "get a latte at Starbucks and then sit around sippin' it" thing.
I have never been approached by a woman in the gym, and I've never approached one. Not that I couldn't..., it's just that the gym is a meat market and I am not a playah!!
So we're basically down to work. Like today..., actually right now..., this woman "G" came down to the office to see if we could get a piece of equipment moved for her. Well I told he she would have to fill out the proper forms and kind of kidded around with her a little. I noticed she asked what my name was twice, and wasn't surprised when she showed up again and asked that I specifically walk the area with her.
So I'm about to go up there and flirt around a bit..., we'll see what happens.
Adrastos
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Like what? I hunt. That's kind of solitary. Well, except for foxhunting, and the good ones are married, the others are either drunks or too young.
The men in my gun club are all married.
I don't belong to a gym. No time for it and no interest. I'd rather spend the money on a horse show, anyway.
Work - well, that's work, not a dating pool. Besides, fraternization is terms for dismissal.