Biggest turnoffs
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| Wed, 06-27-2007 - 12:22pm |
Fun topic for all. What are your biggest turnoffs? And what is the most shallow reason for not dating/dumping a guy? (And its just for fun, no one is trying to offend everyone)
Biggest turnoffs:
Smoking
Country music
Baseball
And wearing clothes that are too tight or too big. I hate when a guy who is clearly an XL is stuffing himself into a medium t-shirt. And the opposite, I hate it when the guy is a S and swimming in an XXL. They make sizes for reason fellas!
Superficial reason for not dating a guy:
After I told a guy all the things I dislike (see above) he still wanted to take me out after blowing smoke in my face, telling me about a country music concert he was going too when they got into the off season of his semi-pro baseball career. In his defense, his clothes fit properly.

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Turnoffs:
- Clingy men. Do not assume I want to spend every minute of every day with you. I don't.
- Whining. If you're in your twenties or thirties and you act like your mental age is 12, I will dump you so that it doesn't feel like statutory rape.
- Never offering to pay the bill. I give you half because it's fair, but that doesn't mean I'm not taking note of your lack of chivalry each time you accept my money.
- Not making lasting or favorable impressions upon meeting my friends and family. Please be advised that we will talk about you from here on out. These people will be more than happy to point out whether or not you deserve me.
- Arrogance. When you point out how awesome you are at everything you do and why you're the hottest thing to set foot on this earth, the chances that I will agree with you go down dramatically.
- Doesn't like animals. To love me is to love my cat.
Wow...that felt really good.
+ People who do not do as they say. Unreliable. People who say they are going to call back and don't. People who don't show up on time consistently.
+ People who dwell on the negative of people and the world around them. People who rather focus on what is bad than what is good.
+ People who judge others negatively rather than have compassion, grace or take ownership of their own stuff.
+ People who says "you" rather than "I." You are this. You should do this. Rather than I think this .. I feel this about ... I want to do this...
Superficial turnoffs:
+ Overweight people and even heavy people. I have worked very hard to eat well and exercise daily. I want a partner to be of the same body type or thinner.
+ People who focus on things/toys/cars/consumerism. I want to share experiences, values, and heart rather than things. I pass when I see women posing in pictures of their Harley or Lexus.
+ People who like to regularly watch spectator sports such as football or baseball. I find that incredibly boring especially if it is on TV (as oppose to watching a game live).
Mark
You only have one chance to make a good impression. Dress for the occasion, keep at least to the current fashion trends (like don't wear high waisted jeans when the low waisted jeans have been in fashion for the last few years..).
One of my good male friends, who is very fashion conscious and great looking, met a girl on the net, when he saw her in person, he was so disappointed, she had actually posted the picture of her friend. She was 80 lbs overweight, (my friend likes round women, but in the photo, she looked about 150lb, but this gal was over 200) and dressed in tight lycra jogging pants with a big tshirt. He took her out to dinner and she had bad table manners too, talking with her mouth full and spitting on him when she talked. He never called her back, he told me, if she would have at least dressed attractively and had better manners, he would of asked her out because overall, she was nice looking but not the way she presented herself!
You have a blind date and he shows up wearing those extra tight skinny jeans we used to wear in the eighties with running shoes and a Led Zeppelin concert T-shirt from 1982. A bad haircut and a (eek, oh my God) mustache!!! Even though he may be good looking, you feel like running for the hills and think to yourself, before he sees me, I'll just take off! I actually had one of my best friends do this..pretty cruel.
I rather meet a blind date, not so good looking, but fashion conscious, well groomed and smells nice! That's a good first impression!
Turn offs
Rude in general
Bad Breath/teeth
Bad hygiene eww
Curses a lot.
Lies, Even though I know the truth...
Too Much Hair.
I know there is more but I can not think of any right now.
I'm not the prettiest/hottest girl out there but I would like for him to give me a chance as I give him the chance. Can't always judge a book by a cover..
TURNOFFS:
Ok, I think that's enough describing
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