Bothering Her

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Bothering Her
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Wed, 11-28-2007 - 1:09am
For some reason, I cannot get rid of the insecurity that I am bothering the girl when I approach her, that somehow I do not belong in her circle. Don't know if you fellows have the same problem, or if you ladies have such problem with men.
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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: akt226
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 7:30am

I think that as long as you pick up on social clues from a woman, you'll be fine.

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Registered: 07-13-2007
In reply to: akt226
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 1:19pm

I have a rule about dating and work. I rarely cross the line from a professional standpoint. I figure a woman has a right to come to work and not spend all day fighting off the same old guys at work all day every day . . . plus failed attempts that go south are bad for the old savings account. However, many, many people would not agree with my feelings on this . .


Outside of that . . you roll the dice. Like Shy said, keep your eyes open, if someone turns there back on you that is a pretty sure clue it is time to politely excuse yourself. LoL Its not all about "bothering" someone, sometimes you simply catch someone on a bad day, or a busy time, etc . . . but sometimes you make someone's day. (-: Just don't be a jerk about it and 98% of the girls wont have an issue with it even if they were not receptive to it. (-: Now and then YOU even get the phone number of a nice girl. (-:


Go forth and be bold young man. ((-:

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Registered: 10-09-2007
In reply to: akt226
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 3:41pm

 Z

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: akt226
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 12:16am

Thanks, people. I think Z understood what I meant, that it is a litany my head. Now I realize that, because of such negative beliefs, I am only setting myself for frustrations. So yeah, please, teach me what you learned.

By the way, I read your profile. What the heck is a midget tosser?