Breaking my own rules

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Breaking my own rules
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Thu, 02-02-2012 - 10:17pm

I am supposed to be in Vegas with a gf today, but 100 yards before

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Fri, 02-03-2012 - 1:55am

So this is crazy, but I went on a second date with this guy today. Yep, two dates in one day.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Fri, 02-03-2012 - 8:14am

Hmm...I'm thinking it really meant she didn't want HIM in her bed, underfoot everyday.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Fri, 02-03-2012 - 10:05am

Menopause seems to always be the excuse for everything..With this new guy you are only hearing one side of the story. usually when a woman doesnt want sex with her husband its because no one will

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Fri, 02-03-2012 - 12:15pm

Menopause doesn't suddenly make women asexual!

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Fri, 02-03-2012 - 9:21pm

Yes, Shy, perhaps you're right.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 02-03-2012 - 11:03pm

That's a really odd reply--he's inspiring you by showing you what not to do?

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Sat, 02-04-2012 - 9:01am
I'd probably call him on that! But that's just me. When guys annoy me, I tell it very much like it is and I don't care how they take it! You were far nicer than I would have been.
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Registered: 02-08-2011
Sat, 02-04-2012 - 10:58am

Wow, Marina, I have a friend who met a guy just like that last year. He was immediatly very self congratulatory about all his work in therapy which he said helped him, among other things,

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Sat, 02-04-2012 - 1:42pm
I haven't been keeping track, but you sure seem to have good luck meeting men. I'm thinking to myself: "Okay, I might meet one interesting guy every two-three months. What's her secret?" Maybe it's the Cali weather? Maybe she's a modest super model and doesn't want to blow her cover. Or...maybe I need to move out of the burbs :P

Good luck with this one. I tend to agree with jt...he's laying it on thick to have just met you. Kudos for being honest with him.
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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sat, 02-04-2012 - 4:23pm

He's apparently trainable. He only called me once last night - I'd turned off my phone early to not have to deal with any men. And today his first text wasn't until 9 AM and it said, "Is it ok if I call you?" I called him and we agreed to meet at some point tomorrow.

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