Call me...What does this mean?!

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Registered: 09-07-2004
Call me...What does this mean?!
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Thu, 03-23-2006 - 2:19am

Hello-

Okay,I just got back from a date with a guy I previously dated in high school. It went well in the beginning, just eating sushi and sake. Then we went to the movies and decided to smoke some marijuana. That is when all this awkwardness came in, and the comfortability that i felt earlier no longer lingered. These long awkward silences continued until the movie finally started. Towards the end we ended up holding hands and that was it. He drove me back to my house, uncomfortably looking for things to say to each other. He walked me to my door gave me a hug and said, "call me if you wanna hang out." Then I said, "No, you call me." he said ok and left. I didn't want anything to happen, such as kissing because every time that has happened in the past, nothing happened of it. Now i am confused if this was just an easy way of letting me down or is something really gonna happen of this. I felt as though it went pretty well in the beginning, but then later it got weird, us both finding we have nothing to say to each other. I felt like he was attracted to me definitely, but now i am wondering if that all changed because we had nothing to talk about. This all wouldn't of happened if the marijuana wasn't there. Tell me your thoughts, they are warmly welcomed.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 6:55am

This all wouldn't of happened if the marijuana wasn't there.


Hmm...do you think maybe there's a reason why we teach kids to say no to drugs?

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 7:15am
Agree about the marijuana and also agree that if a guy says "call me" it's either you do or you don't 'cause I'm not gonna call you.
If he can't pick the phone up and call me on his own initiative, then I'm wasting my time with him.