Called, Very cold on the phone..!?!?!?!?
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| Tue, 03-21-2006 - 7:34pm |
Hello-
Tomorrow I am going on a date with a guy I used to date in high school. Up until now I have only talked to him on the internet and drunk at a new years party. Today he called. It had to be one of the most uncomfortable conversation I have ever had. There were those awkward long silences, (AHHHH) I hate when that happens and plus he was talking really quiet, very unenthusiastic and spoke really quick. There was no connection what so ever, and I felt like I was working over time figuring out something to say. I have this idea that the guy is suppose to put most of the effort in getting the girl. Like trying to be funny and such. With him it is like I am the guy. Now I have this date tomorrow and I don't know if I should cancel it on him. He is only visiting where I live for awhile and then leaving back to school. There is no problem talking to him through Instant messenger, but on the phone it is like someone totally different. Am I making too big of a deal out of this? Should I stop analyzing and just go on the date? Why was he acting like that? Is it because he's nervous? Any opinions are greatly welcomed.
P.S. In the past I thought he was gay. The reason is, when out on a date his guy friend kept grabbing his crotch and he was just giggling about it.

I don't think you should cancel on a guy just because of one bad phone conversation.
I agree with Shy. You can't judge him based on one bad phone conversation. It's just one date, what do you have to lose? And, like you said, he won't be in town for long anyway so if it doesn't go well then you won't have to worry about it. On that same note though, try to not go into the date thinking it won't go well. Be a little open-minded and look at it positively.
The crotch thing is odd but people are odd in highschool and, luckily, we change.