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|Tue, 07-30-2013 - 11:29am|
Last night I was out and when I checked my cell phone I had a VM from a guy I last went on a date with almost 2 years ago. We went on 3 dates total, but there was a big space between the 2nd & 3rd--he hadn't called then we both happened to be on OLD again and he asked me out again & I went. It was a pretty good time--he made an effort, we had a nice dinner, then we went to this special event called Fashions Night Out where there were things going on like a main street closed off, stores having special things, bands outside, etc.--but it was still awkward. You know how you meet someone & the conversation flows easily & you feel like you've known someone a long time? Well it was not like that. lol But I think I was trying to convince myself that I should still date him cause he was nice enough and I wasn't dating anyone else--but there were definitely no sparks.
So after that date, he said he'd be having some minor surgery the next week. I called him the night before to wish him well with it and he was saying "Oh you're so nice to remember, thanks for calling" and stuff like that--plus he had left his umbrella in my car. So he says he'll call me in a few days when he feels better--never calls.
so now he calls sucha long time later and says "Hi, this is R. Remember we met on match.com. I was just calling to say hi & see how you were doing. I'll call again or you can call me. My number is..." Yeah, I don't think so. He's not a bad guy but really how do you even have the nerve to call someone after so long a time when you blew me off before? I'm really in a different place now--I have a lot going on and I'm always busy and I'd rather be out doing something fun with friends than be on a boring date. Plus I have 2 guys I have my eye on. :)