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| Mon, 06-27-2005 - 9:45am |
I am mortified at my behavior recently and just looking for some support and hoping that you have had moments like mine. I was out at a club on the weekend with a friend of mine. In the past, we used to get pretty crazy when we would go out but our living situations are much different now than they were (we are both mothers). Anyway, after some dancing with some men on the dance floor all night, things escalated to them coming back to our place for some more drinks. I ended up sleeping with one of the guys - who is only 20 (i'm 29). Protection was used... sex was pretty good. The thing is, he stayed over the whole night and held me and didn't want to leave the next day. I was soooo embarrassed at my behavior that all I wanted was him to leave, and as soon as possible. He asked for my number once, but I pretended not to hear him. Then asked me to meet him again in a couple of weeks at the same bar. UGH! How could I do this to myself? Was the sex worth all of this?
The funny thing is, shouldn't this be the reaction of the guy? All they wanted was the sex, nothing else. I feel like such a fool. Anyone else ever had a one-nighter and sooo regretted it after? God I feel like a tramp.

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It does sound like a wild night that you had!
But dont feel alone in how you are feeling.
sbaryya826,
EVERYONE will tell you to live life with no regrets. You were sensible enough to use protection and you made no promises to him. It was nothing but a fling that you (hopefully) enjoyed. Most men would boast about what you did, not regret it. DON'T feel like a tramp.
I understand why you're feeling the way you are.
I agree. I apoligize because I know this was another person post. I am aggravated by what societal mores say a women should or should not do. Not just about sex either. I do feel that human beings have a need to connect or have sex. However I do understand that we are not animals and I feel that I am picky with who I chose to connect with. I would only want to sleep with someone I connected or felt something for. I couldn’t ever enjoy being with a complete stranger. However I think guys are different, it seems as if men could sleep with someone they didn’t’ even like much. How is it that women tend to feel cheap and but men don’t? Don’t men ever feel cheap? Or maybe I am the only women that feels this way. LOL
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