can't take it anymore

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Registered: 06-01-2005
can't take it anymore
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Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:36am
I just can't take life anymore!!! I feel all alone in life eventho I have the best child in the world. I want a man that I can share my feelings with someone I can tell how my day went someone to cuddle. I am so tired of one nights stands where that guy has no feelings for me. I met a guy that I really like and he is talking about leaving his wife but they have a child together and I keep trying to get him to work it out with her and at the same time I want him in my life. He has really never told me what he wants. I am a single mom so when do I get the time to go out and met guys. I have tried to meet guys online but all they want is sex and that is not what I am looking for. I feel like my life is sliping away from me I have no fun in life fun to me is cuddling my daughter. I miss having someone in my life. Can anyone say something to make me understand why I always am last in life?? I give and I give I always put everyone before myself and am always left behind I sometimes think that I shoudl just try to put myself first but I know that I can not do that. I feel liek I can never get a head I want to just cry myself to bed every night. I wish I was not alone. Please helpme I am going crazy!!!! Thank you for any help.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:50am
With the exception of your daughter, my advice is to stop giving so much to everyone else. Start thinking about yourself and what will make you happy. Online dating doesn't always have to lead to men always wanting sex, either. I have done it and quite frankly, I have never had a guy cross that boundry with me. And another thing, what are you doing with a married man??????? It sounds like you're not making the best judgement calls with regard to men. I don't mean this to come off a harsh, either. I think when you get yourself together, everything else will follow. Right now, focus and yourself and your daughter. Get yourself in a good place and then the dating will follow. I hope this makes sense....
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 7:47am

I agree.

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Registered: 07-03-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:04pm

Unfortunately I think alot of your bad feelings are stemming from caring about this married man... you start to feel like it's something about you - when the bottom line is... he's just not avaiable! :(

Hang in there and let me know if you need someone to talk to!