Character vs. Stability

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Character vs. Stability
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Thu, 05-08-2008 - 11:57am

I am having kind of an interesting conversation with a friend. And we were discussing love and life in general, who we date, how we project what we want to see vs what we should be seeing

We in America do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate.

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Thu, 05-08-2008 - 2:31pm
In my opinion your question is in part about choosing passion or stability and for me it's passion everytime.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 05-08-2008 - 2:38pm

It's the age old "love or money" question. :)


If I have to choose between the suitors in your post, I would choose the carpenter. But IRL I would choose neither one.


I need to have equal, or as close to equal as possible, amounts of both character

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Registered: 01-26-2006
Thu, 05-08-2008 - 3:53pm

To me, it's a gut thing...I'd be with whichever guy I thought I should be with.

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Thu, 05-08-2008 - 4:28pm

It's the age old "love or money" question. :)


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Not really. It is why I tried to make the difference between the two as close as I could. This is really based on real experience and reflection. The idea is most people wont sacrifice love for money, (some will, sure.), and most people wont take a lovable yet completely

We in America do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate.
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Thu, 05-08-2008 - 4:39pm

to add greatly

We in America do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate.
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Thu, 05-08-2008 - 8:00pm

This is

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Thu, 05-08-2008 - 9:01pm

I know I didn't truly answer your question, but these are my thoughts.


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No, you get it. It isn't about the answers. It is simply thought provoking. (-; It was meant to get people to just think about the choices we make and why. I find a lot of value in doing that to myself whenever possible. Great answer.

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We in America do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate.
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Thu, 05-08-2008 - 9:26pm

First of all, both of them proposing?

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Thu, 05-08-2008 - 11:13pm
I married the character guy and I wouldnt have it any other way.

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Fri, 05-09-2008 - 3:06am

For me, the first question I would ask is if we have a similar financial mindset.

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