Chemistry or Am I Thinking Too Much?

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Chemistry or Am I Thinking Too Much?
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Thu, 02-23-2006 - 11:40am
Once I met a girl who was flirting with me. Her body language and the look of her eyes are different from someone who is friendly but nothing more. I did not respond, partly because I was not interested in her and partly because I wouldn't even know how to build up the chemistry. So, let's say there is mutual interest, how do I continue the chemisty, or am I just thinking too much?
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Registered: 11-01-2005
Thu, 02-23-2006 - 12:43pm

If there's mututal interest, ask her out and see what happens. If she's flirting, there's a good chance she's interested, so what do you have to lose? If she says no, at least you asked and are not left wondering what would have happened.

As for chemistry, that needs to build on its own. Either it's there or it's not.

The world would be a better place if we just kept it that simple. :)

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Registered: 03-28-2005
Thu, 02-23-2006 - 1:03pm

I don't think you really consciously build up chemistry - it's either there or not. Stop worrying about it and be yourself if its meant to be it will happen.

Trina

-*~*- Trina -*~*-

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Registered: 09-01-2005
Thu, 02-23-2006 - 3:34pm

Chemistry is simply a natural reaction. There's not much you can do to "make" it happen.

If you're interested, ask her out. There's no other way to tell.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Thu, 02-23-2006 - 6:29pm

Just ask her out if you're interested!

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 02-24-2006 - 3:25pm
Right, I will ask her out. I know that part. What I mean is that when you meet someone, you need more than smiling and saying hi. Sometimes I feel so dumb that I would not even know what to do in front of her.
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Fri, 02-24-2006 - 6:37pm

That's where your personality comes in.