Chemistry starts with a look

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Chemistry starts with a look
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Sat, 02-04-2012 - 11:36am
Interesting night last night. I was out with my guy friend, and he invited a cousin of his to meet us. The very first time we made eye contact, I knew there was chemistry. I don't even think the guy is super attractive, but there was something there. We didn't really talk too much, but enough to know he seems like a nice guy and he seemed interested. He does have a super crazy ex wife/baby momma, though. I know that from my guy friend. He didn't stay too long. when he left, he gave me a hug and kissed me on the top of my head!

Then we moved on to a different place to meet other friends. One of them brought guys I hadn't met before. The one sitting across from me seemed a little scary- two earrings, scruffy facial hair. Not my type. Then he brought me a drink and we made eye contact when I thanked him and again! There was that little something in the eyes. I never even got his name and we didn't talk much either, but it was just weird! He left with just a wave.

In the meantime, I'd texted T to see if he wanted to come over and he didn't respond. That usually means he has his kids and is in bed early. He and I have never had that "moment" or any chemistry. It's definitely what's missing with him. I wasn't too upset that he didn't respond.
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Registered: 05-14-1999
Sat, 02-04-2012 - 12:51pm

I agree, I know the exchanges were brief, but did you get any flirting in?

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Sat, 02-04-2012 - 1:05pm
No. Because I wasn't sure that I found the first guy attractive and because it would have been awkward with a third person there, I didn't even think about it. I wasn't sure of the second guy's status. When I first got there, I thought he was with the girl I knew. It was really hard to tell. That would have been awkward too!