co-worker is getting a little obessed
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co-worker is getting a little obessed
| Wed, 07-11-2007 - 10:29am |
hi,
i transfer to my job about nine months ago. im friends with everyone at work. i have a co-worker who seems to like me more than friends. his name is nick and he never had a gf before. he used to like another girl before i started working there, but she didnt like him in that way. she left the company before i started there. we became friends and than i started noticing that he's been doing a lot of things for me and u can notice that he like me. so i ended up asking him straight out if he like me n he's like yes. n he ask me if i like him back and i told him no only as friends. i just gotten out of relationship of four years n really didnt want a bf at the moment n im not interested in him. he's one of those guys where u no that u guys will always be friends and friends only. that was a month ago. he's been talking alot of me n it starting to get a little obessed. we both sometime work the same hours n he's been wanting to give me rides and go out for drinks. i've been going through a lot with my family cuz my dad pass away two months ago, my sister just had surgery to remove her overies, and my mom is ill at the moment. he wants to go on a date with me, not as friends but more and im like no. he ask me out again and i told him no. told him that i only want to be friends. so how do i deal with this? honestly i told him the truth and i figure if i avoid going out with him for drinks will give him the hint that im not interested in him. we can be friends, but nothing more. so could someone help me out please. thank you.
i transfer to my job about nine months ago. im friends with everyone at work. i have a co-worker who seems to like me more than friends. his name is nick and he never had a gf before. he used to like another girl before i started working there, but she didnt like him in that way. she left the company before i started there. we became friends and than i started noticing that he's been doing a lot of things for me and u can notice that he like me. so i ended up asking him straight out if he like me n he's like yes. n he ask me if i like him back and i told him no only as friends. i just gotten out of relationship of four years n really didnt want a bf at the moment n im not interested in him. he's one of those guys where u no that u guys will always be friends and friends only. that was a month ago. he's been talking alot of me n it starting to get a little obessed. we both sometime work the same hours n he's been wanting to give me rides and go out for drinks. i've been going through a lot with my family cuz my dad pass away two months ago, my sister just had surgery to remove her overies, and my mom is ill at the moment. he wants to go on a date with me, not as friends but more and im like no. he ask me out again and i told him no. told him that i only want to be friends. so how do i deal with this? honestly i told him the truth and i figure if i avoid going out with him for drinks will give him the hint that im not interested in him. we can be friends, but nothing more. so could someone help me out please. thank you.

Smile,
Deirdre
Hey sorry to hear you have an obessed co-worker. I hate to sound rude or anything, but couldn't you tell your boss or someone with authority what's going on? I would tell him that I'm into him and nor anytime soon, but he's a nice person and he would make someone else very happy and right now you're not that person who wants to be happy with him! I hope that helps and I'm sure some of the other members will have something to say.
I completely agree.
I would tell someone before you up grade him to stocker if you likes you that much and befor eyou become his boss. Just a thought, but you never know!