Commitment? no way!!
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|Mon, 07-21-2003 - 7:00pm|
I posted a while ago about a situation with my friend Carl and I. He and I have become great friends lately with the understanding that I only want friendship. He openly has told me he cares for me romantically and expressed that he wants friendship if that`s all I am ready for.
The thing now is, I am beginning to *GASP* like him very much. I do not want a relationship however, which is why I`m not only confused but I feel extremely guilty. Everyone tells me to distance myself from him for a while until these feelings pass,.. but I refuse to let go of such an amazing friendship because I`m confused.
I dont think I could be committed in a relatonship right now with him so why the heck am I feeling so strongly towards him?!! AHHH!! Is it possible for 2 people to be best friends even if they both feel strongly for one another? I think I`m just looking for some reassurance that a friendship is possible regardless of the feelings we both have.
Thanks for listening to me whine! eheheh