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| Wed, 11-16-2005 - 10:17am |
So heres my story...I met a great guy online who I get along great with...I like him, but he is 2 months out of a two year relationship and isn't really interested in jumping back in one..and I am 2 years out of a 3 year relationship and I enjoy my single life anyways..so I wasn't concerned. Well, after us hanging out as friends for a couple weeks we ended up becoming intimate..which didn't change anything..I still see him as my friend. So, he calls me up and asks me a couple weeks ago if I had ever been to Jamaica..of course I said no and he said "lets go". I said Ok. Well, heres my problem...4 days ago I managed to meet another great guy online...who is more than excited about me...and wants to start spending time with me, who has his life together and isn't fresh out of a relationship...and I like him more in the 4 days I have been talking to him more than my other friend..so, my question is what do I do about my trip...who should i talk to first?

It's not clear from your post...have you actually *met* the 2nd guy in person? If not, I wouldn't decide anything until you've met in person and gone out at least a couple of times.
Sheri
Don't make any decisions based on someone you've known for four days.