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|Thu, 07-24-2003 - 9:07am|
I just got out of a marriage where one of the biggest clashes was when XH tried to do just that; apparently his dead first wife was more easily manipulated (she was 19 when they married). I found out a little late in the day about his controlling tendencies, but got out in time, thank God.
My ? is, WHAT is controlling, and how do you recognize it? I know that sounds obvious, but I've always thought there was something, a neon sign on now-XH's forehead, that was glaring at me and I didn't know enough to see it for what it was...