date for wedding

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Registered: 01-10-2007
date for wedding
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Wed, 04-04-2007 - 8:32am
My friend is getting married in the fall and I'm planning to ask a guy friend I went to college with to be my date (as long as he's not seeing anyone). We had a bit of a thing in school but it didn't develop into anything more. It's been a couple years since I've seen him but we've talked a bit off and on since then. Is that too weird? Most of my guy friends have girlfriends so I don't want to upset any of the girlfriends by asking their boyfriends to be my date. How long before the actual wedding should I ask him? I don't want to ask too early but I also will need to find a plan B date if he can't make it. Thanks!
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Registered: 01-15-2007
In reply to: azure84
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 5:36pm
I would ask him by July this way you have time to find someone else if he can't go with you and what a sweet girl you are not wanting to ask your guy friends out for they are taken most girls don;t care and that is cool that you do HUGS

 

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Registered: 08-16-2005
In reply to: azure84
Thu, 04-05-2007 - 11:13am
I would ask in the summer but really if you are single why not go alone especially if it's a friends wedding maybe there will be a single guy around that will think you are uber hot and want to date you. It's harder to mingle with the singles with a date.

Smile,

Deirdre