Dating goals for 2008

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Dating goals for 2008
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Tue, 01-01-2008 - 3:01pm

I found this article on MSN-


http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=9005&TrackingID=516165&BannerID=541888&menuid=6&GT1=10787


I hate the word "resolution" because it just begs to be broken.

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Thu, 01-03-2008 - 4:05pm
I had a 47 year old man email me last night and say he was in town this weekend (he's from another city), and could he tempt me to meet him for a drink?

 


 


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Fri, 01-04-2008 - 12:49pm

<> Oh dear. Sorry you had to go through that. After claiming 'no sex on a first date' then comes out with that! Wow. I thought I had been on some dates with perverts recently. It does seem to be a trend.


To not make the night a waste do what I do. I have plans with friends for usually around 9:30 and tell my date I hope they don't mind but I do have plans afterwards and if they want another night then fine. They usually say they don't mind. This works if you're still not too sure about the guy.

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Fri, 01-04-2008 - 1:02pm

I wonder if I can get my money back from Match! The men are kind of strange to say the least. I went on four dates and have ditched spending any time on it. The one

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Fri, 01-04-2008 - 1:40pm

It's all fun and games, isn't it?!

 


 


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Fri, 01-04-2008 - 2:21pm

Either way, what's your goal, and more importantly HOW are you going to make it happen?


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I am not sure anyone answered you question so far. LoL My goal is to get back to being good at being single and STOP shopping for girls. (-: Along with "single", I plan on good balance. Savings, investments, some social time mixed in along with all my hours. I have "worked" away the last 5 years. I will this year too, but I want some healthy fun mixed in this year!


I am going to do it by staying off of all of the OLD sites, exercising, working, adhering to pay your self first rules . ..

We in America do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate.
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Fri, 01-04-2008 - 3:41pm

Let us know how the date goes. The first one is a nervewracker.


As to what to wear - daytime is great for jeans/cords and a fantastic top!


Beach

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Fri, 01-04-2008 - 4:13pm
It's not deciding on jeans that is the issue - it's the top.

 


 


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Sun, 01-06-2008 - 1:47am
I don' t have any dating goals b/c they seem just so out of my control whether or not I get asked out. What I want to do and have been practicing is to be more confident and comfortable around men. I like to have the devil may care attittude, be flirtatious without looking desperate. Be cheerful, happy, and still classy
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Sun, 01-06-2008 - 11:09am

Dating goals:


What is it you want to change about your single life in 2008?

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Sun, 01-06-2008 - 12:16pm

Be careful with the obsession.