Dating Newly Separated Men

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Dating Newly Separated Men
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Sun, 03-11-2012 - 2:55pm

I met a wonderful man!

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Mon, 03-12-2012 - 11:42am

Those are WEIRD coincidences, Free!

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 03-12-2012 - 1:31pm

There must be some kind of Freudian thing in there since you keep responding to my posts by calling me "free."

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Mon, 03-12-2012 - 2:00pm

Go for it.l He sounds like fun. My SO's divorce wasn't final until last month. so what? He was done with her and the rest was just technical legalities in his mind. Of course, we did have quite the celebration when it was officail.

As far as the sex, SO is 50, does not loook like an athlete, but wow! Sometimes men have hidden talents

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Mon, 03-12-2012 - 5:24pm

Apologies, Music. I should wear glasses when typing!

I just got back from lunch with him.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 03-12-2012 - 10:14pm

I have one word for this guy... EGO DRIVEN .. okay that was two words..

So Mr. Sep. guy would move back in with his wife if she was not a hoarder .. that is very interesting... Mr. sep. guy is out there checking out women and is on two dating sites.. (interesting).. He happened to stumble upon you and added you to his escapades.Interesting ...

DANGER DANGER DANGER WILL ROBINSON

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Mon, 03-12-2012 - 11:31pm

Well, Free, it is actually not like that at all. We just spent two hours together, had our first kiss, and he's not been with any women at all since his separation 5 months ago - I miscounted, he didn't misinform.

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Registered: 09-12-2005
Tue, 03-13-2012 - 9:27am

The fact that he would be back with his wife is she weren't a hoarder means nothing. I'm sure many people would be back with their exes if they corrected some caracter flaws. When people have families, that's why they usually separate. And in his case especially, since he's supposedly never been in love with her, he would just go back for convenience.

I'm not sure though why he thought that she would be a good partner raising kids if she's a hoarder, but that's besides the point.

I find it strange that a man in his 40s (?) has never been in love and that he wants to TRY it lol. That would be an alarm for me.

About breaking his heart, don't do it on purpose (LOL), but don't be afraid of it. Things happen and nobody dies from it. He would finally experience something that people usually experience much earlier in their lives anyways.

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Tue, 03-13-2012 - 3:48pm

Oh, Anita! I've become besotted.

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