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Free, I say if you are not getting the bad vibes, and he seems to be interesting company, go for it. Just be sure you understand you are just having fun for one night and don't do anything you will look back with regret. Like a couple of people said, it might be good to do something different, maybe enjoy a good evening. It is hard to meet good matches the older we get,both men & women, probably because as people get older they become more set in their ways and less likely to make big changes for a new relationship. but as you are waiting for that match, there is nothing wrong with going out every so often and having a good evening with an interested man. Just make sure it is on your terms. If you don't want an FWB situation, then just go out for dinner. You just make sure you get out of the night something for you.

The only date i had in about a year was the same. I ended having dinner with someone from work i can't date due to office romance rules. It was supposed to be a group dinner and everyone bailed. I knew she liked me, and i do think her attractive too, but rules are rules. But for that one evening, it was like we were dating, I picked her up, we shared dinner, talked for hours till the restuarant closed, talked into the late into the night, but when we got to our hotel, even though every part of me wanted to ask back to my room, or at least get a goodnight kiss and i think she would have said yes, i held back. because that would be crossing the line  that i would have regretted later. And since we went back to the professional but for that one night, it felt good and i remember that night with warm memories and in a way, it gave me a little bit of confidence, that whenever i finally get back into a dating situation, i still "got it."