Dating is so much work
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Dating is so much work
| Wed, 07-04-2007 - 12:28am |
So I had 2 dates in one weekend which went really well. Of course, the guy I really want to see again hasn't called me and the one I am not really interested in calls me non-stop! It's such a pain!
The one who hasn't called me asked if he could call me again to go out and I said yes. Did I not seem convincing? I understand he is probably busy, but the other guy has crazy hours as well and someone finds the time to be quite persistent. I really wished I liked him more. I guess there are some things you can't do anything about.
I guess I should complain, 2 dates in one weekend (this never happens!), but it's so energy/time consuming. I wish there was another way to find the right person.

Hey gal,
Well I think its pretty obvious as to who is interested and he isn't. It sounds like one of the dudes really wants to go on this date with you while the other could have had a change of mind or just isn't that enthusiastic about the date. Even if you're not as interested in the one guy look at it this way, its a date with someone who wants to have a good time and you know is showing interest. So try not to look at it being how you look at them to be but who you know is interested and is going to have a better time with. From error and trial, it would be a good choice to see the one who show interested and common ground. And if the guy hasn't called by now no matter how busy he is, I think that is a sign.
good luck
Reese
Don't you HATE that?! Its always the ones you don't like that keep hanging around. I find it too that the ones I am clearly showing no interest in ie. disengaged, looking around, not talking, being short with are the ones that are always trying and keep coming back. The ones that I'm open and having a good time with are the ones that disappear forever.
And part two to your comments: Why do they say on the first date "I'd like to go out again, talk again, call you, etc" And then they never do? Why say it? I never ask or make an awkward situation where he feels like he has to say it, he comes up with it all on his own and then just doesn't do it. Why do guys do that?