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Dealing with myself
| Sat, 06-03-2006 - 6:43pm |
Hi everyone,
I recently broke up with my boyfriend of over a year, I am in a stage (althought not sure if there are stages) were I am over him, but not it. I'll clarify, I am over him and what happened between us but im not over the "us". I miss having a relationship and I miss that security (though how stable im not sure). I am wondering if this is common. Also, I am questioning my relationship with him now and looking back, and we had this problem where he felt that I was too clingy. I cried a lot when I was with him and I felt that he was the only one that I could let my guard down with but, after talking to him while breaking up we decided that it was because he didn't give me enough attention and when I cried I got attention from him. I do not want to this with someone else. This guy was the first guy I ever had sex with and I feel a huge bond with that. Does anyone find that sex changes the relationship the first time you have sex? Is this with any relationship or just the one you lost your virginity too? If it's with every relationship is there things that you can do so it doesn't spiral downward after sex. I'm just looking for general advice here. If my story sounds complicated ask and I will try to explain better. I just feel confused right now and want answers. Thank you guys. :)
I recently broke up with my boyfriend of over a year, I am in a stage (althought not sure if there are stages) were I am over him, but not it. I'll clarify, I am over him and what happened between us but im not over the "us". I miss having a relationship and I miss that security (though how stable im not sure). I am wondering if this is common. Also, I am questioning my relationship with him now and looking back, and we had this problem where he felt that I was too clingy. I cried a lot when I was with him and I felt that he was the only one that I could let my guard down with but, after talking to him while breaking up we decided that it was because he didn't give me enough attention and when I cried I got attention from him. I do not want to this with someone else. This guy was the first guy I ever had sex with and I feel a huge bond with that. Does anyone find that sex changes the relationship the first time you have sex? Is this with any relationship or just the one you lost your virginity too? If it's with every relationship is there things that you can do so it doesn't spiral downward after sex. I'm just looking for general advice here. If my story sounds complicated ask and I will try to explain better. I just feel confused right now and want answers. Thank you guys. :)
