Dear God, I miss SEX!!!
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Dear God, I miss SEX!!!
| Sun, 01-22-2006 - 9:12pm |
I've been single now for 6 months, and it's the longest I've ever gone without any sort of physical intimacy. Not so much as a kiss or a hand to hold. And sorry, but taking care of my own business just doesn't cut it!!
What do you all do when you're ready to just go down to the local bar and grab the first cute guy?

Trust me, you'll get past it.
I'm at about the 8 month mark myself, minus some making out with one guy along the way.
I do miss it quite a bit, but I have to say that sex (for me) is so much nicer with someone I know and trust -- so I'm holding out for that.
The idea of sex with a total stranger doesn't really do it for me. Check back with me in 4 months or so, and we'll see if I'm singing the same tune. :)
AJ, enjoying life with C.
It's been almost a year and a half as far as actual sex goes for me. I'm fairly young though and the last guy I had sex with was my first. Such a good girl :).
I'm actually worried that I've got a complex or something since my first time/guy was so... sentimental. Now I think that by doing it with another guy I'll destroy all the magic and beauty and whatnot... I dunno... doesn't help that that particular ex was also a virgin and has been attempting to get back together with me for nearly a year now. He asks once in a while if I've had sex with another guy and I think it might destroy him if I did... bleh... sensitive guys: Blessing or burden?
It's been 5 days for me but I honestly don't know when it'll happen again since I'm not really seeing this guy right now.
Not getting regular sex and physical affection is the worst for me since it seems like my sex drive is in full-gear lately. I get really frustrated, agitated and pent up if I don't have sex after day 2-3 months. Some days/weeks, it's all I can think about, until it drives me crazy. I must get the female equivalent of blue balls cause there were times where I couldn't calm my arousal. And its so annoying to be at work or trying to do schoolwork, fully aroused.
Luckily, I do have a "friend" to relieve some tension. But that is even getting old as I miss having sex AND being with someone who cares about me.
LDR's suck for sex. We've gone four months without each other. Then its hurry up lets go for a week...and then back to abstinence for another long stretch.
I am in a relationship, but I do sympathize. Its gets to be a long 4 months sometimes.
Rubyshoes
I think I miss the physical contact as such the most (it's been 4 months since I had physical contact with a guy, as my ex and I broke up then).
I do miss waking up next to him in the morning and seeing his sleepy face and ruffled hair and snuggling up next to his warm body. God, I miss that sort of physical closeness and cosiness, it was sooo nice. My sex drive as such seems to have become dormant, which I can live with. Remember Miranda in the first season of SATC? She got really sexually frustrated around the 4 month mark - I am quite glad my libido is keeping quiet so far ;-)
BUT I think we'll all be fine in the end!