deceitful relationship..

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Registered: 11-06-2003
deceitful relationship..
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Thu, 11-30-2006 - 9:39am
Hi all, I was in a 3 year relationship (he lived about an hour from me - so I spent every weekend there), anyway he was from Europe- but living in the U.S. - He would go back to Eurpoe every 6 months or so, one time when he was away, I opened his mail (He TOLD me to open anything that looked important) & it was a petition to bring over his WIFE & CHILD (he married her AFTER he met me)..I was willing to deal with it (I know, I'm stupid, but he told me, he wasn't in love with her like he is/was with me), well, this past summer, when he went back to Europe, I found a receipt for a heart necklace & bracelet (around $500) anyway I assumed it was for my birthday - it wasn't (he didn't get me ANYTHING), - - he did tell me the truth - it was for his wife out there - needless to say, I finallly left him, here's the kicker, the loser (married with a kid in Europe) has posted an ad in yahoo personals looking for someone ! - amazing how deceitful someone is - isn't it?????
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 10:37am

The sad thing is, you probably weren't the only one he was keeping on the side.

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Registered: 06-30-2006
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 10:39am

Such a waste of your precious life with this jerk! A man with no integrity, no character, and now he's looking to try and catch some unsuspecting female using OLD...go figure! He is a good example of "false advertising" with OLD, these guys appear available for a relationship but they are NOT now or probably never have been available for a real realationship.

Please remember that you are far better than this jerk. Chalk this up to another chapter in your book of life and be happy that he is out of your life! Love yourself first and you can have a wonderful life without, or with a man! Best Wishes!

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 3:22pm
Yes, very unfortunate. Hugs and well wishes go out to you.