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The difference between love and love
| Sat, 11-12-2011 - 3:09am |
Just home from a third date with someone who is mentally stimulating, emotionally endearing, sweet, spiritual, calm, tender, affectionate, complimentary, thoughtful, courteous, and wonderful in so many ways.
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We do hold the power in most relationships. I hate to say that withholding sex creates that power, but it seems that it does. It'd be nice if we could have our sex and still feel like the guy is trying to impress us.
Wow Marina, you brought up a one reality that I care not even think about but it is a reality for most people.
Mark,
I think that a lot of times the "power" in a relationship comes from which person likes the other one more--I agree w/ you that I wouldn't want to consciously play a game w/ someone to exercise control over him, but I think that in the beginning of a relationship there is always this conflict going on about how much to express your feelings to someone--you know, if I tell the guy that I really like him or if I call him too much then is he really going to want to be w/ me?
Music,
Your insights are always interesting to me. As it turned out, we made love twice this past weekend.
You do have a great approach to the situation-I wish more women recognized how much power they hold.
No, this is a man whose words are very carefully weighed.
Well this is a very interesting development.
Music
Steve Harvey is wrong.
Sometimes I think your replies are way out in left field, but this time I agree that the person who is busy & has a lot of friends is a) more attractive and b) it's a lot better for our own personal sanity to have an active social life rather than sitting at home hoping that the desired man will call.