Do I keep him for the sex?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2010
Do I keep him for the sex?
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Wed, 11-30-2011 - 2:53am

I never saw myself ever wanting someone based on the physical.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2010
Wed, 11-30-2011 - 7:48pm

Two reasons, 1) I have dogs, and 2) I don't live alone, while my situation is nowhere like his, with a partying roommate.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 11-30-2011 - 7:55pm

Hi

Goldfish

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2010
Wed, 11-30-2011 - 9:47pm

I understand that his friend may going through something, but that's not my focus.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2010
Wed, 11-30-2011 - 10:20pm

Well, that convo is a bust.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2010
Thu, 12-01-2011 - 3:35pm
Yeah, you should just let him go - if not for your sake - for his sake. I would find it very hard to be involved with someone who had so many doubts about me. If that's the case I would say move on and find you happiness...ya know?

Stalking is no fun either. I was cyberstalked before and it wasn't fun at all. After a while it felt like the person just wanted to make me feel bad so the could feel better.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2010
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 7:31pm

My doubts are more about his friend who shares his home.

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 10:16pm

Keep him as your booty call. And date others too!

Goldfish

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Registered: 05-11-2010
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 11:59pm

That won't work.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Tue, 12-06-2011 - 1:00am

Some obvious solutions come to mind:

1. You don't feel comfortable around his friend and he doesn't feel comfortable around your dogs apparently.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2010
Tue, 12-06-2011 - 11:25am

I feel like a glutton for punishment, as I'm still communicating with him and have tried to be reasonable about what I feel and think about his live-in friend situation.