Do I scare guys ?
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| Sun, 02-26-2006 - 5:10pm |
Hello,
So here's my thing : I've been single for a few weeks now and I've been going out with friends for a couple of times now. Actually, this has always been a problem : I have a hard time meeting new people when I go out, it seems I intimidate people or I do not look approchable. I'm not very self-confident so I thought I'm not attractive enough to interest other guys. However my friends, who maybe are just saying this to make me feel better, describe me as a very beautiful girl. It also happens a lot that I learn later, by another person, that a certain guy found that I was very pretty but they never come and say it to me ! When I ask what's the problem they say that I look serious or independant or very self-confident... what's that supposed to mean ? Like I said, I don't have much self-confidence and I love to laugh and joke around so it always surprises me when I have these comments (which I have quite often).
The last few times I went out to a bar, I noticed some cute guys staring at me but it ended there. All I had was wierd-looking half-drunk guys saying stupid stuff to me or others trying to grab my butt when I got out of the ladies room. I mean, I can't change my face, so I don't really know what to do... making the first move for me isn't an option because I'm way to shy. I can't really meet guys through my friends because they are interested in a type of men that really don't interest me. So what am I supposed to do to get people to come up to me and talk to me ? I'll never date if I don't meet anybody and I do feel like dating right now... BTW, I'm 24 (going on 25), a student (doing my masters).
Any help would be welcome ! Thank you :)

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