Do some people just have more love to Give than Others!!

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Do some people just have more love to Give than Others!!
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Thu, 04-26-2012 - 9:24am

I was just pondering this lately and from things I read from this board and other boards and wondering if some people just have more love to give than others.. I am thinking that I have so much love to give and need it to be reciprocated and that is why I feel the need to want someone in my life..

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2011
hey free

i think we are all have a lot of love to give, the 'amount' of love isn't so much the issue i think as the capability, knowledge, courage and willingness to give and show it.

some people are so afraid of pain and getting hurt and so vulnerable that they almost don't know how to reciprocate and show the love they have. they may never have experienced love themselves due to background/childhood etc. and so they probably express it in their own way which to them they believe is 'love' but to others it doesn't seem so.

only way of knowing for sure is good old open and honest communication i think

EO
The first day of the rest of my life: 25/10/2011
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008

Hi; yes what you say is true but I am not quite sure why you said that...
Do you mean that there arent enough people willing to give love and accept it and so there is a shortage of people finding each other and connecting?? That is probably very true these days..

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
I think everyone's idea of love is different, which is why it may seem to you that a person isn't "loving" when they are just showing it differently.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008

Sorry but I am not getting what you guys mean..

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2008

Free, I understand how you feel.

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Registered: 10-16-2006

And face it, we don't have a lot of control over whether we meet the right man, regardless of how many online dating sites we go on or how many blind dates,etc. It's not like school or work, where there is almost always a direct relationship

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999

At least we have all come to this conclusion & aren't beating ourselves up about being single like it's our "fault."

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