Do you prefer men to think you are:-
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Do you prefer men to think you are:-
| Fri, 06-16-2006 - 10:12am |
Do you prefer men to think you are:-
- Intelligent
- Sexy
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| Fri, 06-16-2006 - 10:12am |
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Does a person have to be a member of Mensa to be intelligent?
I always get a few comments from men in general. They think I'm cute or pretty, smart and nice. Those are the comments I get most when men are dating me. I rarely get the sexy comment so although I would love men to point out that I'm intelligent, I would love to get a comment that I'm sexy because I don't usually get them and when I fish for that comment from boyfriends they say "of course you are always sexy and you always look good". But I dont' get the sexy compliment I get the "aww you are so cute compliment". Kind of bugs me sometimes even though I know they mean well by that comment.
I get cute a lot and the occasionally pretty, but that's about it.
Interesting qualifier you are using Hal... member of mensa or other iq org... Personally, I don't need to be a part of an organization to validate my intelligence.
And I don't agree that those kinds of measuring tools are the only way to measure intelligence. To me, intelligence is real life application of knowledge. If a guy has a mensa membership, but only talks over my head, then is he really so intelligent? But if a guy can make intelligent-based decisions and communicate those decisions in a meaningful way, he is intelligent enough to have secured a second date.
"To me, intelligence is real life application of knowledge.'
That is a very wise saying withrespect, wow I love that. To me intelligence has nothing to do with ACT scores and how well someone remembers, history facts, theroies, formulas, etc. Adding to withrespect it's also about seeking the truth. There are doctors out there that have PH.D's, they learned things from school that aren't true, but because they have a degree, that makes them right. Sometimes being intelligent means following your heart, and admitting when were wrong. I think little kids are intelligent, I love their attitude, for the most part they are honest and their hearts are pure.
All is not always as it seems.
I could also say emotional intelligence and being a good person are much more important in a relationship than being tall. But how many women want a tall man?
>many highly intelligent people do not
>connect with other people at all.
This isn't completely true. Highly intelligent people don't connect well with people of average intelligence. This is the reason why High IQ societies are formed and also why it bothers me when women say they want an "intelligent" man. Intelligence isn't arbitrary.
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