Do you see it happening?
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Do you see it happening?
| Tue, 05-15-2007 - 11:09pm |
I kinda realized today....I can't actually picture "it" happening for me.
| Tue, 05-15-2007 - 11:09pm |
I kinda realized today....I can't actually picture "it" happening for me.
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I'll just share what I have learned about this...
It's not just "thinking" it but it's believing it can happen. My understanding is that we need to believe it can happen to allow it to happen.
Also, when we think it, there needs to be feeling behind that thought. For instance, if you want to create a mate, you would remember the feeling of comfort, of being in love, etc at that moment. From the "LOA" and being in this state, you would attract it because like attraction attracts like.
I am not sure why you can't see it happening for you. I guess if you feel depressed, then it feels dark. I am willing to bet if others met you they would not think this about you.
After many years of forgetting about romance and love...I can imagine it. It all started a dream I had that reminded me of what it felt like. I woke up feeling very very good and happy! I have touched off with that feeling and revisited a lot...also doing a lot of things that "wake up" that feeling inside ...listening to music that is soulful and passionate, wearing dresses and romantic clothes, growing my hair out, looking at couples and thinking "wow, wouldn't that be nice"...imagining me and my honey creating a home together and sharing all good things...
So, yes, I can imagine it...but for many years I had not.
>>For instance, if you want to create a mate, you would remember the feeling of comfort, of being in love, etc at that moment. <<
I was just thinking about this today. I was trying to remember what it feels like to be in love, to be held, etc. For me, I think the trouble with that is that it automatically brings up images of my ex. He's the one with whom I felt most loved and most secure. Remembering him makes me a little sad.
So, my problem is trying to imagine that with someone new. Believing I can love someone other than him. It's very hard to imagine that with someone you've never met - when you don't have a face to put with the image - you know?
I think the advice of concentrating on the feeling (rather than the image of a person) might help. Staying in touch with that feeling helps you remember that it's possible and you're capable of it.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
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