Does he or does he not...

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Does he or does he not...
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Fri, 03-31-2006 - 12:19pm
I will never know this answer until it all plays out, but I just wonder if I am wasting my time. Here is the story. Went out with a new guy last Saturday and had a good time. He is the type of guy who is just a plain ole gentleman which is cute because he is so tall and big. It's adorable. He was getting sick with a sore throat the day of our date and called into work Monday and Tuesday. We emailed once a day since the date and that would be it. Because there had not been much follow through on his end this week, I started to become less interested. Meaning just one email per day and no phone calls. So I decided to move on yesterday. Then I got this email saying we should go for drinks the next week. I guess I am more venting then looking for actual advice. But I just wonder if he is trying to be polite because he in not interested by taking this so slooooowly. Guys what do you thinK??
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Registered: 02-08-2006
Fri, 03-31-2006 - 1:35pm

You went out last weekend, have had communication of some kind every day since, and he's asked you on another date, but you don't know if he's interested??

I don't think he's moving that slowly. If he were moving that slowly, he'd still be working up the nerve to ask for your number. He'd certainly not contact you every day. Yes, he's interested.

He might have a life, though, and maybe he wasn't available to go out every night this week. So, he asked you to go out when he was.


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Registered: 03-20-2003
Fri, 03-31-2006 - 5:57pm

That sounds very familiar.

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Registered: 06-02-2005
Sat, 04-01-2006 - 4:51am
I agree with shy. Write back and tell him that you are busy that weekend. If is keen, he will try and arrange something around your schedule.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Sat, 04-01-2006 - 10:26pm
He called today. We had made tentative plans for next week earlier in the week and confirmed Wednesday today. Who knows what will happen, as I could change my mind about him as well.