Dont flame me I am just observing something!!

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Dont flame me I am just observing something!!
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Fri, 04-20-2012 - 8:07pm

Okay.. So Sis and the new guy have been seeing each other.but guess what?? I am over it so please no lectures.

But I

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ROFL,guy with feet mouth brain personality of clay!

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Sat, 04-21-2012 - 12:19am

4 letters, MYOB.

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Sat, 04-21-2012 - 12:32am

oh; yeah;; Mind my own business... I will and you are so right on that one..

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Clarification: That was meant to the GUY who had no business in telling you what to do or how to do it.

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Oh my! You dodged a serious bullet!

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I so agree Marina and I doubt sis will ever marry again.

I am trying so hard to find a place I can afford afford but so far nothing has come about yet and I hope and pray something changes otherwise it feels like a slow death of sorts.. but thanks for the encouraging words..

Keep going I guess no matter what but hope is waning.

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So your sister is working hard to keep this guy LOL.

And that's what I meant by asking yourself if you would even want to be with this guy before feeling jealous. That's the thing about jealousy, we imagine that someone else has it better. I hope you're feeling better LOL.

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Sat, 04-21-2012 - 10:44am

oh; no problem Mark.. but I should also myob and he should also.. BTDT with enough control freaks to last me a lifetime.

thanks for the input..

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Sat, 04-21-2012 - 11:01am
I am playing devils advocate. Could it be that he's one of those people who can't be in a room with someone else, and not speak. Perhaps he couldn't think of anything else to talk about, and that was his way of acknowledging you/making conversation? Did he say it with a rude tone in his voice? He may have even been joking around with you and expected you to retort with something wry or witty.

I dated a guy for a while and I gladly did whatever he wanted because I really liked him. I also quit smoking for him. I had friends and relatives ask what was up because they'd never seen me behave this way. Like you, they thought he was controlling me behind the scenes. It wasn't the case at all. I was just madly in love. Try not to worry about it, Free :) I mean, unless he starts alienating her from the family or you see bruises or something...
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Sat, 04-21-2012 - 11:44am

Well, with somewhat knowing your personality, I couldn't see you w/ a guy who is telling you what to do all the time.

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