Don't quite agree with my friend ....
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Don't quite agree with my friend ....
| Thu, 04-06-2006 - 9:54pm |
So....the other night a girlfriend and I were out on the town having a few drinks and shooting the breeze. Eventually the talk turned to sex (surprise) and she told me her new boyfriend has a bit of a freaky fetish. He likes to get um....let's say abused (mildly, nothing over the top as she put it) in his happy place. Other than protecting myself again rape, extreme violence, etc., I could never imagine hitting a guy in the balls just for the hell of it. So my question is to the other girls, have you ever had a guy who is into this? Have you ever squeezed/kicked/kneed a guy in the pills just for the hell of it? and if so, I'm not judging just seeking info, what is fun/cool/whatever about it?

Have never met a guy who is into this but everyone is different when it comes to what they like about sex. I know that I like having my breasts pulled and twisted and my nipples tweaked really hard. My boyfriend and friends find this really unusual as most ladies seem to have sensitive breasts but for some reason, just that little bit of pain turns me on.
If my partner enjoyed having his balls kicked, I would have no problem going along with it, making sure I didn't ever go too far. He is the same with me, he worries about hurting me but still has a good old tug on my jugs because he knows I like it.
Havent helped you at all but I think for the most part, it just heightens the sexual experience.
I've had two different experiences which are similar.
One: A guy really liked it when I bit his nipples.... hard and he would do the same to me. I asked him about it one time and he said, "There is a fine line between pain and pleasure." It was exciting at the time, but I did wonder if painful sex was going to be fulfilling for the rest of my life. That relationship ended for other reasons.
Two: I dated a guy for a while who liked to slap his penis against my abdomen. It was just a big turn-on for him... the stinging, I guess. He would do it during foreplay and didn't need me to be involved other than to lie there. He wasn't hurting me. Just something he enjoyed.
I say to each their own so long as I get mine!!
Started a poll based on people's responses
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlsinglelovi&msg=6429.2&ctx=128
Thanks to all that have responded, still don't think it's for me, but don't want to deny my guy any pleasure either.