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dont understand him!
| Wed, 09-14-2005 - 8:38pm |
okay ladies, any advice would be greatly appreciated! basically there is this guy i hang out with every now and then. he told me recently that he thinks i am cute and that he likes spending time with me, so i assume he may be interested. i am starting to like him a lot, but i am confused about how he feels. he has this attitude where he basically says "come over whenever you want"...i feel that he does like to spend time with me, but i dont know why its always me that has to come around him. when we first met, it was at a friend's place, and we ended up hanging out the whole night. then i ran into him a week later and we spent some time at his place. i asked him if he wanted to watch a movie at his place a few days after that, and he said definitely, so we did. that night he asked me if i was going to this concert that is coming to our area, and he said he would pick up a ticket for me if i was going to go. he was unable to get tickets, but i thought it was a nice gesture. since that night, i talked to him once online after he gave me his screen name. i messaged him first and he didnt say a whole lot to me, he basicaly just responded to what i said, not much conversation there. thats the last time ive talked to him. i really like him and want to continue to get to know him. i think that if he were not interested, he would not tell me to come by or give me his screen name or anything like that. but i just dont understand why he never really initiates anything. maybe he is shy? its kind of an awkward situation because he lives in the same building as me. thats why i guess its no big deal to him for me to just stop on by...i dont feel comfortable with that though. i want to know that he is interested by him planning something or asking me out. i really dont know what to do. any suggestions?

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Most women know that if a guy doesn't want to actually take a girl out, he's either just after sex or he's only interested in being friends.
Shy,
One dating dilemma is trying to work out if someone you are interested in is interested in you. Most people would say the only way to solve this is to ask them out on a date. Another dating dilemma (probably the biggest one of all) is making the transition from friends to lovers. I can't help feel that this is the current dilemma skydiverzz is in and the consensus from all the women is, it’s up to HIM to make the move.
Why should it be this way?
This guy hasn't even passed the first delimma- showing interest in dating.
>This guy hasn't even passed the first delimma
>showing interest in dating
Maybe he ISN'T interested in dating.
>And what has he done? Said...oh, yeah, if you
>want to put forth the effort to come to ME, I'm game.
No. He said, "come over whenever you want"...and she has. If she doesn't want to anymore that is her choice, not his.
>There are plenty of women out there willing to make that first move
Then why are you discouraging it in this case?
>What I'm saying is that we are getting sick and tired of
>LAZY men who want us to do all the courting while they sit
>back and enjoy.
Don’t you think I’m sick of all the "lazy" women who expect me to do all the courting whilst they do nothing but enjoy it. I come across these types of women all the time. Pretending to be my friend or acting aloof as if they are not interested…LAZY women, they don’t fool me!
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