Doubts.....Would you still wait?
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| Tue, 10-31-2006 - 9:46am |
First of all, I want to thank those who had taken time to read or reply to my previous post about that guy i have a crush on, it was helpful.
Well, it has been another week since I last posted anything. Nothing really new, but I do have some other doubts now.
I talked to a girl who has been friends with him for a few years, I told her how the lunch went pretty awkward with him last week because he wasn't very talkative. She told me that it's really not me, but him, she said "even though I'd been friends with him since 3 yrs ago, I still have a hard time holding a conversation with him. He just seems to be "out of it" all the time, it's just how he is. He's extremely nice, but he is just not all that talkative."
I then told her how I even bought books to learn about flirting (ok i know it's dorky haha) so i could flirt with him. She said "girl, any flirting would be way over his head, he doesn't know how to flirt and he barely how to talk to a girl."
Anyway, I think what she said about him is pretty accurate, like, that really is how he is. I really feel that my feelings for him has been decreasing. But on the other hand, deep in my heart, I dont want to "let go". I dont want to stop liking him. I don't know why.
Do I really like him? I want to know what liking someone is really like. If you were me, would you still be trying to find chances to hang out with him more(not to mention even being with him)??

I'm kind of getting to be an age where a guy who "doesn't know how to talk to girls" is a turn-off, so if I were in your situation, I'd be thinking, "Next!"