eH update

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Registered: 10-16-2006
eH update
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Wed, 03-05-2014 - 12:23pm

Not much to update. really. None of the matches they have sent are interesting to me. And in fact, most of them come with the caveat "So-and-so is a great match who just happens to be outside of your settings." I will say that at least they aren't sending me men who are 16 years older. I'm wondering if these guys that are outside my settings want younger women? The fact is, some of these guys are probably nice guys--just not for me. I need more than "nice guy." I can't bear the thought of boring coffee dates, and having to say later, "I don't think we're a match." It's just awful.

It's funny, I guess eH is just doling out the "matches" like candy. Who knows how they decide which ones to give you first? The hard-sells? But, again, it really just depends on who happens to be online during your subscription. 

I notice my general anxiety has gone up since starting this again. It feels vaguely humiliating putting your photos online advertising your single status. "Yes, I'm unable to meet men in real life for some reason."

Yes, I know I could quit, and I might after three months. I could always go back to match.com for a month. After being away for a while, I would be "fresh meat."

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 03-05-2014 - 2:21pm

Sorry you aren't having luck.  I do really wonder at how EH matches people up since I hardly ever found someone who was remotely my type.  Remember when Marina was on here?  (I do miss her whether the stuff she said was true or not.)  She used to say only join match for a month because then you are new and get all the excitement and after that it drops off--I think she might have been right about that.  You always get the new interest right away.

Another thing about EH that I couldn't figure out is why sometimes I'd get 7 matches a day and then go a few days with nothing--if you are a new member, you'd think there must be a certain number of guys who are already "in the system" that they could dole out to you, like 3 a day, which would probably be better to think about.  I couldn't believe it that in about 1-2 weeks they suddenly ran dry of all the 50-ish year old men in Boston--I mean it's not like I live in a small town where there might not be many guys around.  I know on the other sites the problem is that there are too many guys in my age category (literally hundreds) even after I take out the ones who smoke or use drugs so why does EH have so few?  You certainly can't say that it's because they give such good matches since none of them were good matches.

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Registered: 12-03-2006
Wed, 03-12-2014 - 7:59pm

I wouldn't use EH b/c they control who you see. Beter to use sites that let you see the entire database.

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