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|Wed, 03-05-2014 - 12:23pm|
Not much to update. really. None of the matches they have sent are interesting to me. And in fact, most of them come with the caveat "So-and-so is a great match who just happens to be outside of your settings." I will say that at least they aren't sending me men who are 16 years older. I'm wondering if these guys that are outside my settings want younger women? The fact is, some of these guys are probably nice guys--just not for me. I need more than "nice guy." I can't bear the thought of boring coffee dates, and having to say later, "I don't think we're a match." It's just awful.
It's funny, I guess eH is just doling out the "matches" like candy. Who knows how they decide which ones to give you first? The hard-sells? But, again, it really just depends on who happens to be online during your subscription.
I notice my general anxiety has gone up since starting this again. It feels vaguely humiliating putting your photos online advertising your single status. "Yes, I'm unable to meet men in real life for some reason."
Yes, I know I could quit, and I might after three months. I could always go back to match.com for a month. After being away for a while, I would be "fresh meat."