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Sun, 06-17-2007 - 3:40pm
My ex and I broke up a year ago. We were going to stay friends but stopped talking when he sent me the meanest email last fall, after an argument. I deleted him from my myspace, blocked him from my email, etc. Well I just received an email that said he was inviting me to join myspace. Does this seem weird?! I have no desire to speak with him because his words were so hurtful, yet I'm curious what he wants!
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In reply to: azure84
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 11:11am

Was it a mass email that he sent to everyone in his inbox?

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In reply to: azure84
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 12:08pm

That was my thought as well - he probably forgot to delete you from his address book and then Myspace sent the message to everyone from his account.

Unless he e-mails you personally, I'd ignore it.

(Shy - that totally stinks. That would ruin my day as well).

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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In reply to: azure84
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 12:33pm

Yep, and it was about a year after we broke up and six months after our last "encounter."

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Mon, 06-18-2007 - 2:51pm

I'm the same way with my ex. It's been almost three years since we broke up and two since we last had contact, but his memory still gets me.

I saw someone on the street a few weeks ago who could have been his twin, and I swear my heart just stopped. That's why I am a firm believer in no contact with exes - and forget trying to be "friends", no way - can you imagine the effect they would have on your current dating life if they were still in touch? The memory alone is bad enough.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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In reply to: azure84
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 5:17pm

can you imagine the effect they would have on your current dating life if they were still in touch?


Well, I probably wouldn't be looking all that intently and I'd definitely be having a lot more (and better...he's the one who is 6'4") sex!


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In reply to: azure84
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 6:46am
Thanks for the response! I'm hoping that's what happened. I searched all around myspace to try and figure out how he would have done that but then again I'm not that myspace "literate". That stinks about what your ex did!!