Exploring Sex

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Exploring Sex
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Wed, 01-24-2007 - 2:50am
A while back I talked about how in the past I absorbed many attitudes which discouraged me from having sex. A bigger problem, I am beginning to see, is that I never learned how to exude sexual confidence. People do not just KNOW how to have sex because sexuality involves more than coitus. Yet in my youth, I never learned how to interact with a girl to whom I am sexually attracted, to create the sexual "chemistry". My parents not only did not teach me any thing about sex, but discouraged me from befriending adolescents from whom I might learn. I want to explore my sexuality, to create my sexual identity, but where do I begin? I live in New York City where every day you will find tons of beautiful women, but I do not approach any one of them because I cannot be any thing to her but a nice guy. What suggestion can you give me?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2005
In reply to: akt226
Wed, 01-24-2007 - 8:08am
I really don't know what to tell you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2005
In reply to: akt226
Wed, 01-24-2007 - 8:32am

Okay, akt...I looked around a bit for you and have a couple of links to some boards that have some great gals on there who can give you some suggestions.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: akt226
Wed, 01-24-2007 - 12:43pm
Thanks for your help! =)
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2005
In reply to: akt226
Wed, 01-24-2007 - 12:48pm

Sure thing.