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| Thu, 08-11-2005 - 8:38am |
so that guy still hasnt called...I feel like if he were a decent guy he would called by now. Last week he didnt call me (text me) till Thursday, so there's a chance he could still call, but i dont know. My gut feeling is that he wont. I know there's never a guarantee for guys to call back esp after only hanging out 2 times, but i always seem to get 'attached' and think about the ones who dont call. Very frustrating. I dont mean to sound conceited, but i'm cuter than this guy! I know looks arent everything but geez...and he was the one who pursued me in the beginning saying he remembered meeting me months back. I mean even if he does call, it's clear he's 'not that into me' otherwise he'd have called sooner. Personally if i were a guy i wouldnt ask for a girl's number if i wasnt that into her...just seems like a waste of time.

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It does kinda hurt a little because it seems I'm thinking about him more than he's thinking about me ... if he's even thinking about me, since he hasn't called.
With me it's mostly a case of building momentum so you can actually get to know each other, if a guy doesn't bother to call me more than once a week it doesn't seem like he's that concerned with trying to get to know me or that excited about seeing me again if he's always taking his sweet time. Being casual is fine in the beginning but there needs to be some sort of consistency or momentum to how often he contacts me or I just feel like it will go nowhere.
That being said, if I like a guy and he calls the next day I don't think he's desperate at all. As a matter of fact, a guy I just started seeing emailed me the next day and I liked it. For me the guys that purposely wait to call are a dime a dozen and if I like someone and they call the next day it is actually attractive because it sort of confirms their interest in me and wanting to see me again and they don't seem to be playing games either.
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